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　　回想一下你上一次跟孩子说心里话，是乐动体育官方网站什么时候？如果有机会，你最想跟他们说什么呢？

　　当爸的不像当妈的那么善于交流和情感沟通，往往很少有机会打开心扉跟孩子聊聊。即便像我这样在美国长大的。

　　父亲节就快到了乐动体育入口，我想跟儿子说点儿心里话。其实我小时候也希望我老爸能跟我说说。

　　你懂的.....也许你也有些心里说想跟你的孩子说，却一直都未曾开口的那些话。那么你何不也打开心扉，和孩子来一场心对心的谈话呢？让他认识认识真实的你吧。 一边给他讲讲人生道理，一边聊聊建立感情，这不也是一种为人之父的幸福吗？

　　这是一封音频信，因为我就是要说给他听的。当然我也在下面附上了文稿，但别只读中文翻译哈--毕竟是歪果仁的文笔。

　　儿子，父亲节就要到了。但我觉得做父亲这事儿也没什么好“庆祝”的，所以你不用给我买什么礼物。我也知道你买的东西肯定都是你自己想要的什么玩意儿，所以还是免了吧。

　　但我想在这一天，跟你说些真心话。除了基因，总得传递给你一些更重要的东西吧，比如关于价值观，支持我的精神和正能量。希望这些能帮你变得更坚强更快乐。坚强和快乐也是我从心底里对你最大的期望。希望你可以感觉到作为我儿子也是很幸福的一件事。

　　在这篇写给你的第一封信中，我想说什么呢？

　　信念。我觉得任何一个人如果想要活得很有意义，最需要的就是它——信念。如果你是靠信念往前走的，你想去哪里就能去哪里，你想成为什么人都可以；没什么风雨雷电能阻挡你，你会觉得你是超人。

　　这个概念有多重要？ 为了提醒自己始终保持着信念，我把它纹在了我的手臂上——Believe相信。

　　为了这个纹身，你妈以为我早更了

　　儿子，我希望你能一直充满信心。不管路有多难，多黑，不管别人怎么否定你，说你不行，都得相信你可以做到。

　　在任何经历困难的时刻，当你摔倒甚至觉得天要塌下来了的时刻，唯有这个信念能帮你渡过难关。

　　你还记得那时候我告诉你，为什么纹身选的是这个字吗？

　　当然你可能没印象了。那时候你才五岁，我开始了新的工作，从500强企业里“别人的老板”辞职出来做培训师。然而涉足培训行业，尤其是在线上做培训...对我来说是一件全新的事情。你觉得很容易吗？不是的，直到现在我依然觉得很难。

　　有很多人觉得我真的不行，他们觉得我讲中文的时候，带着奇奇怪怪像外星人的发音，就这样还想在中国用中文给中国人做培训？

　　就连你妈有时候也认为我没法跟别人比。“Hubie你还是用英语做培训吧。用你的烂中文教别人讲故事？有没有搞错？你不是以卵击石么？这些本土的培训师可都能说会道，你跟他们比，屁嘛不是啊。"

　　儿子，偷偷跟你说。现在我有很多想法也都不再跟别人说了，因为外面负面的声音太多了。 但我还是计划要去做。因为我相信我有最好的方法论。我相信自己在这方面还是有天赋的。更重要的是我会很努力的改进我的中文发音。

　　最重要的是，如果连我都不能相信自己，还有谁会呢？

　　现在，你已经面临了一些磨砺。我知道你很讨厌游泳比赛。我也能猜出为什么。你不就是长得矮了点呗，而且准确来说你也只跟游泳队锻炼了一年而已。你看别的选手，那几个男孩比你高出一个头，而且长得那么壮，像个迷你版的 Michael Phelps。你估计在想，“我输定了！” 。 其实这么想也没问题。 但重要的是，要当心这个念头，它会让你压根儿就不想尝试。

　　儿子，就算你今天拼不过他们，就像我现在也还拼不过那些中文说的很好，很有经验、很有话术的培训师一样。但你得去尝试才行啊，加上在平时下功夫。然后相信自己，有一天你追得上的。如果不试，你就一直没有机会。

　　就像我也得从现在就开始拼，第一步，把讲故事培训课往前推进。咱爷俩千万别被别人唬住了，以至于连我们自己都不相信自己，然后就都不去尝试。你千万别这么容易就被别人吓回姥姥家去。

　　爸爸也知道，还有其他一些你不相信自己的事情。比如数学，你不相信自己真的可以学得很好。你老说自己笨，所以就都不怎么努力去学。还有中文，你不相信有一天你也能很“流利”的听说读写，所以你一直对中文的抱有怨念，就像它每天都要扒你的皮一样。

　　长大后，你也会遇到一些你想要做，但却看起来很难的事情。你也许会退缩，或者打击自己，“哎呀，我不可能和他们比！怎么可能做的那么好？” 但我要跟你说，只要你想开始永远都不算迟。

　　爸爸唯一怕的是你因为没有自信而不去尝试。我怕的是，你因为没自信而不敢有远大的梦想，把自己囚禁在小小的追求里；因为不相信自己，而不敢尝试具有挑战性的工作，只为了领一份安稳的工资。

　　所以儿子，如果有谁跟你说，什么事对你太难了，或者别人都比你好，或者你根本就做不成之类的话，老子允许你竖起中指跟他们说“去你的吧”。

　　你只要对自己说“相信”两个字。相信自己，如果你都不相信自己，别人更不会。

　　当然除了你老爹以外。

　　因为我会一直相信你行的。

　　英文版

　　Hey Buddy，

　　You know Father’s Day is coming up. It’s not really to “celebrate” me. So you don’t have to get me anything. Besides,乐动体育官网 I bet whatever you get me is something that you want.

　　Instead, this really marks a good start for me to have some heart-to-heart with you. Pass down to you my values, my knowledge, my positive outlook on life, to make you strong and happy. That’s all I ever want for you. To be strong and happy.

　　With my first letter, I want to remind you of the most important piece of thought that you can have. That anyone can have, really. If you have it, it can take you anywhere you want, become anyone you want to be. Nothing will stop you. Seriously. You’ll feel like superman. It’s such an important thought; You know how I remind myself? I have it tattooed on my arm.

　　Believe.

　　Buddy, I want you to believe in yourself. No matter what happens; No matter what other people tell you. Believe that you can do it.That is the only thought that will carry you through the hardships and tribulations, when the going gets tough, when you fall down on your face.

　　Do you still remember the story of why Daddy got this tattoo? You probably don’t have any recollection of that period when I changed my career. So years back, you were 5 years old, and I quit my “real job” and became a “trainer”. This training business, esp. doing it over the internet…this is something totally new for me.

　　You think it was easy? No way right? Even now it’s still overwhelming. There were many people who didn’t believe that I could do it. With my sucky Chinese with a strange-ass pronunciation, and I want to become a trainer in China? Yes, even your Mom sometimes thought I was out of my league.

　　“Forget it Hubie. You’re going to teach storytelling in Chinese? You can’t hold a candle to your competition? They’re real Chinese, who know how to talk a lot, in Chinese.”

　　You know what buddy? I don’t tell them about it anymore. But I’m still going to do it. Because I believe I have the best process. I believe I’m really good, I have a talent for it; and I can work hard to compensate for my Chinese problem. The most important thing? If I don’t believe in myself, nobody else will.

　　Now, you’re already facing that a lot. Like swimming. You hate competition, I know. Because you’re a bit short. You’ve only been training hard with the swimming team for this past year. You look out in the other lanes, and see boys how are a head taller, and look like a mini Michael Phelps. I guess if I were you I would also think, “There’s no way I’m going to beat them.”

　　But the thing is, you let that thought stop you from trying.

　　Dude, OK. You’re not going to beat them today. Just like I’m not going to beat those other Chinese trainers this year on my first try. But you have to give it a first try, otherwise, you’ll never give yourself a chance to catch up. And then believe that with more hard work, you’ll get there. Just like I have to start today, give a kickstart my storytelling workshop. Screw all those negative voices out there.

　　Son. We can’t let other people intimidate us into not believing, and then not trying. That’s bullshit man. So damn it, don’t you let that happen to you.

　　There are other things you don’t believe in yourself. Like Math. You don’t believe you can ever excel in this. So you don’t try as hard. And Chinese. You don’t believe you can ever be super “fluent” like the native speakers, so you keep saying that the learning Chinese is stupid.

　　As you grow older, you’ll find things that you may like to do, but because you haven’t even started, you will doubt yourself, “oh, I don’t think I can be as good as other people”. Yeah, those other people have been doing it for years!

　　And I’m afraid that’s going to hold you back from trying. I’m afraid that you won’t even dare to dream big. I’m afraid that you’ll just settle for a shitty job that just pays the bills.

　　Buddy, for anyone who tells you that “oh it’s too hard for you”, or “other people will always be better”, or “you just can’t do it, you just don’t have the talent”; You can just give them the finger. Yeah. I said it, the finger. And you just tell yourself. Believe. I believe. If you don’t believe, nobody else will.

　　Except for me, I will always believe in you.

　　父亲节快乐

　　Happy Father's Day

　　为什么啃了那么多干货，喝了那么多鸡汤

　　却还是没有改变？

　　因为你没有教练！

　　比尔盖茨说“每个人都需要一个教练”

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